Tips for Finding your Perfect Partner

• Decide what you’re looking for in a prospective partner and what type of personality you’re after. The more likes and dislikes, attitudes and interests, even patterns of speech and expression you have in common, the more likely you are to bag your perfect date.


• Be proactive in your search for the perfect match. Get ‘chatting’ to possible ‘hopefuls’ on dating websites; check out any many profiles that would appear to ‘click’; be friendly, but not pushy. Just think: ‘if you snooze, you lose’; this certainly applies to the dating game.


• If you want to streamline your sift for that perfect date, be sure to choose a dating site that’s right for you. Also, be clear about the types of dating services that best suit your needs. Draw up a dating wish list and concentrate on your personal ‘must haves’, before committing.


• Many wannabe daters, if they’re perfectly honest, haven’t got a clue about what constitutes their perfect date and no amount of soul searching will lead to any clarity. All they know is that they want to meet their
Perfect Match and they want to meet this paragon, pronto. If this description fits you, fear not. Your best bet is to choose a dating website that offers multi-relationship services and has a very large database of members.


• Options, facilities and services vary considerably from one dating website to another, so explore the possibilities. Focus on those dating websites that promise to deliver the type of relationship you’re looking for, e.g. friendship, romance, casual fling, n.s.a. sexual encounters, adult fun, etc


• Once, you’ve homed in on a promising match, open up; be honest. Don’t be afraid to discuss your hopes and any fears. Exposing a little vulnerability, occasionally, is never a bad thing, provided, of course, you’re generally up-beat and projecting a ‘glass half full’ attitude to life.


• Finally, in your relentless pursuit of perfection in a mate, don’t ignore your gut instincts, or for that matter, overlook the profiles and pictures that simply don’t tick any of your ‘ideal partner’ boxes. Just occasionally, your perfect match could be lurking behind a particularly unpromising profile.